Is your spouse staying out late or working? Is that new outfit for your benefit or to impress someone else? Are there behaviors that just don’t seem to make sense? It is estimated that about 30% to 60% of all married individuals in the United States will have an affair during their marriage. This isn’t that surprising if you consider that close to half of all marriages end in divorce. When you are in a committed relationship, you want to trust your spouse and the explanations they will give you when they get backed into a corner. But there are telltale signs that your spouse is spending time with someone other than you.

Signs that Your Spouse is Being Unfaithful

1. Cellphone Protection. If your spouse has started to take their phone with them wherever they go then something may be going on. If they begin to take it to the bathroom or turn it off with the explanation that they don’t want to be disturbed, then they may be hiding something from you. They may also want to avoid a call coming in that would cause a problem, like maybe a call from another person.
2. Cell Phone Passwords. Along with being very protective of their phone, your spouse may be protecting everything in it with passwords. If this is happening where they didn’t seem to care before, then they are probably keeping something from you.
3. New Bank Accounts Opened. If you and your spouse share all your banking cards and information only to find that they have opened a new account and have new cards, they are most likely spending money on someone else.
4. Dress Different. Your spouse may be trying to impress someone else if they start to change the way they dress or may be wearing something that someone else bought for them. If they smell differently then they may be trying a new scent; possibly a fragrance bought for them by an admirer.
5. Talk About Their Secret Lover. Many times when a spouse is cheating they will start to drop a name that you’ve never heard before. They think they’re smarter than everyone else if they talk about it in the open and get away with it.
6. Talk Badly About Their Secret Lover. A spouse may start talking badly about someone to hide the fact that they actually have feelings for them. This is an attempt to cover up their feelings.
7. Starts Fights for No Reasons. If your spouse all of a sudden starts to provoke you into fights, it may be their way of putting the blame on you when the affair comes to light; and blame you for all the fighting.
8. Send You Away. If your spouse suggests that you should go on a getaway to visit family or spend time with friends, then they may want you out of the way to send time with someone else.
9. Reluctant to Have Sex. Many times a spouse will feel slighted when there is a rejection of sex. Where they may have fought it before, they may go along with it now because they’re getting it somewhere else.
10. Social Media Connections. Social media has a made it possible to reconnect with old flames. Many relationships have been ruined by too much free time on the internet and spouses not communicating with each other when they reach troubled water and turning to others instead.

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