Are you beginning to suspect your partner is having an affair? This can become a painful question we begin to ask ourselves. You may have many questions and thoughts running through your mind. Then it stops at the biggest question of all “can our relationship survive?”
Men & Women Who Have Affairs
We see cases of infidelity of famous and wealthy couples all over the news, tabloids magazines, and internet. It’s understood. Famous and wealthy people are very desirable and many men or women are drawn to them. It must be a hard temptation to fight. However this is not just a problem for the rich and famous. Infidelity is a worldwide problem. Researchers estimate 57% of men and 54% of women have affairs. The top domestic investigation cases for Advanced Private Investigators & Security of Fort Lauderdale Florida, surround infidelity between couples. So why do so many people have affairs and what is the straying partner looking for in another relationship? It’s hard to know why some individuals may desire an affair. It might be for the thrills, or someone is searching for more of an emotional connection. Researchers are starting to think it might have something to do with genes. Each case of infidelity varies and is unique. Thereby making it hard to determine a common cause.
Marriage counselors, and therapists find couples don’t work towards preventing cheating in their relationship. Counselors often have to help couples work through the repercussions of an affair. Working past an unfaithful partner can be difficult. The betrayed person or the person suspecting their partner is having an affair has a wide range of emotions. They are confused and filled with pain and anger. They fear these emotions can be life scarring and difficult to work through. The emotions of the unfaithful partner can be shame and guilt for the choices made or indignation and smothered if they are indeed faithful. Both parties may even feel anger, bitterness and disillusionment. Both may have fear of losing one another and the emotions on both sides can feel like a roller coaster for months or even years. Infidelity or even just the suspicion of it can cause trust issues in the future too. If ties are cut with the cheater or suspected cheater, the spouse will likely meet someone new and get into a serious relationship. They may have memories and fears of being cheated on and may feel the need to know for sure. That’s where a private investigator like Advanced Private Investigation & Security of Fort Lauderdale Florida comes in. Whether you have never been cheated on before or experienced this multiple times; we can give you the answers you seek. From running background checks to surveillance, call us to either confirm your suspicions or put your mind at ease and allow you to enjoy a fulfilling relationship without the worry and doubt.
Infidelity Recovery
Back to the big question “can couples survive infidelity?” Each couple handles it differently but researches have noted that 67% of couples can work past an affair and remain together contrary to common belief that an affair ends a relationship. When an affair is brought to the surface, the unfaithful partner usually regrets the choices made. They work the hardest to repair the broken trust. Couples tell their marriage counselor or therapist that their affair is a temporary relationship. They view it as more of a quick fling and not something that’s meant to last forever. In seeking to repair the damaged relationship it takes both partners to fully dedicate themselves to the cause. Don’t put it all on the one who committed infidelity and place blame solely on them and expect them to repair the damage alone. One can’t drag the other on the road towards healing. Couples need to work hand in hand to rebuild and to move forward towards the future. Surviving infidelity is a choice you and your partner have to make. Are you prepared to working through the broken trust together? Are you and your partner ready to repair the foundation your relationship is built on? It’s not something repaired over night and time will tell.
