These days, marriage isn’t held in the same esteem as it once was. For the sake of the title, it seems like more and more people are getting married. Loyalty and morals are not a part of the equation when push comes to shove. More often than not, a couple divorces are commonly because of a cheating spouse, sadly. When a partner cheats, the unwitting partner may not recognize the signs initially, but eventually, the truth is confirmed when intuition, red flags, and evidence comes to the surface. To help people recognize a cheating partner sooner rather than later, we at Advanced Private Investigator & Security of Miami, FL would like to share some signs of a cheating spouse.
What’s a Good Way to Catch Cheating Spouse?
Catching a spouse having an affair is typically because of two reasons; accidental happenstance and/or extensive monitoring, and rarely due to the fifth degree of tactical interrogating skills. Eventually, something slips where the cheating spouse’s activities are exposed since it can be difficult to maintain a façade, lies, and containing the evidence. Sometimes it takes tracking the spouse to confirm suspicion since the accidental exposure may not manifest for a time. As the suspecting partner, surveillance, though most effective method can be is viewed as unethical, and if you are wrong, can cause some serious repercussions in the relationship. To better protect yourself, a private investigator can be the best solution to save face if you are wrong or have the evidence readily available if you are right.
How to Catch Cheaters Trying to Hide Their Tracks
Below are some practical tips for catching the lies and cheating.
1) Your spouse’s activities and claims should be noted. Pertinent information such as the times, dates, places, other people involved, excuses given, among other should be jotted down. You can confirm activities when other people are involved with the journal in conjunction with phone bills, credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, and even social media. Eventually something slips and stories get confused because lies are very hard to keep track of.
2) Track the spouse’s mileage, credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, receipts, phone records, and other such information.
3) Provide different off scheduled departures and arrivals like coming home at odd times, making announcements about having to work late, and/or even popping into their work unexpectedly.
4) Along with download computer monitoring software which will make it easier for you to monitor your spouse’s activities that are readily available, there is surveillance equipment like hidden cameras and voice activated recorders you can make good use of. Keep in mind, in some states using such equipment can raise some legal issues.
5) Consider that your spouse might be trying to be clever and program their number in the cell phone under a different name of the same sex as a “buddy” or even under a mutual acquaintance when monitoring the phone calls and text messaging. If it is with a “friend” they might try and talk in code, take note of the excessive numbers that pop up in the log or review the text messaging.
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Try not to confront your spouse about the cheating unless the evidence is clear when you feel you have the proof you need as they will only become more careful as they grey rock and gaslight your allegations. Advanced Private Investigator & Security of Miami, FL has the training and experience involving cheating spouses and can gather the proof within the law to ensure the court proceedings are in your favor as well as confirm the spouse’s infidelity with Advanced Private Investigator & Security of Miami, FL. For your consultation, call us today.
