Every year marriages are torn apart for a large variety of reasons. Financial struggles, lack of intimacy, infidelity, abuse, addictions, and lack of communication are some of the most commonly cited reasons for divorce. Here at Advanced Private Investigator & Security of Miami, FL we regularly talk to people who are dealing with infidelity. Over the years we have found some common reasons that people cheat. Today we want to share some of them with you.
Lack of Intimacy in Relationship
The most obvious reason for going outside of your marriage for intimacy is that intimacy is not happening inside of your marriage. Humans are made to need connection with other people in order to be emotionally fulfilled. True connection between a married couple leads to increased intimacy. If you are not being intimate with your spouse, you may start to look outside of your marriage for someone to be intimate with.
Falling Out of Love
Every relationship has times where things are just not going as well as. Sometimes these times cause people to doubt their love for their spouse. It has been reported that over 77% of people that cheat state that they simply have fallen out of love with their partner. They start a new relationship to find someone that they can love.
Revenge Cheating in Marriage
Other cheaters state that they were angry at their partner and cheated as a way to get revenge on their partner. You may be thinking that their partner cheated on them first so why not do it back? Studies show that most of the time the anger was not over their partner cheating first though. Many times they are angry about something different and this was their way of getting back at them.
Lack of Attention
In relationships one partner may not feel like their partner is giving them the attention that they need or want. This feeling of neglect causes them to start thinking about having a relationship with someone that could make them feel more attended to. They reach out to cheat so that they can feel seen, heard, or appreciated by someone because they are not getting those things out of their current relationships.
Cheating Addiction
Addictions of a wide variety may be the reason that partners find themselves cheating. Drug addicts or alcoholics may get high or drunk and make the decision to cheat when they are not in the best state of mind. Pornography addicts frequently end up cheating because the pornography is not enough for them anymore. Sex addicts cheat because they are not getting enough sex inside of their relationship to feed their addiction. A large percentage of cheaters have some type of addiction.
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There is no way that we have covered all of the reasons that partners cheat in one article. Advanced Private Investigator & Security of Miami, FL has seen even more reasons than we listed here that people claim made them cheat. If you think that your partner is cheating and you want to find out we can help. Give us a call and we can go over how we can help you see what is truly happening in your relationship.
