Marriage these days isn’t held in the same esteem as it once was. It seems like more and more people are getting married for the sake of the title. But when push comes to shove loyalty and morals are not a part of the equation. A sad truth, but more often than not when a couple divorces, it is usually because of a cheating spouse. When a partner cheats, the other one may not pick up on the signs at first, but eventually intuition, red flags, and evidence confirms the hard truth. Today, we at Advanced Private Investigator and Security of Miami FL would like to share some tips on how to catch a cheating spouse.
Spousal Surveillance & Monitoring
When catching a spouse having an affair, is rarely because of the 5th degree and tactical interrogating skills, it is typically because of two reasons; accidental happenstance and extensive monitoring. It can be difficult to maintain a facade, lies, and containing the evidence, but eventually something slips where the cheating spouse’s activities are exposed. Where the accidental exposure may not manifest for a time, sometimes it takes monitoring the spouse to confirm suspicion. Below are some practical tips for catching the lies and cheating.
How to Catch a Cheating Spouse
1) Keep notes of your spouse’s activities and claims. Jot down the times, dates, places, other people involved, excuses given, and other pertinent information. The journal, in conjunction with phone bills, credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, and confirming activities when other people are involved can help expose inconsistencies. Lies are very hard to keep track of. Eventually something slips and stories get confused.
2) Pop in to their work unexpectedly, or come home at odd times, make announcements about having to work late, but then come home early, and different off scheduled departures and arrivals.
3) Note your spouse’s mileage, receipts, credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, phone records, and other such information.
4) When monitoring the phone calls and text messaging, keep in mind your spouse might be trying to be clever and program their number in the cell phone under a different name of the same sex as a “buddy” or even under a mutual acquaintance. Take note of the excessive numbers that pop up in the log or review the text messaging. If it is with a “friend” they might try and talk in code.
5) There is surveillance equipment like hidden cameras and voice activated recorders along with downloaded computer monitoring software which will make it easier for you to monitor your spouse’s activities that are readily available. But be aware that using such equipment can raise some legal issues.
Exposing Cheating Spouses with Surveillance & Private Investigations in Greater Miami, Sunny Isles, Fort Lauderdale, Boca Raton & Miami Gardens Florida
When you feel you have the proof you need, try not to confront your spouse about the cheating unless the evidence is clear; brushing off the proof as a misunderstanding, or having ready excuses will make them more careful. Be sure you have irrefutable proof before confronting them. With Advanced Private Investigator and Security of Miami FL, we have the training and experience involving cheating spouses and can gather the proof within the law to ensure the court proceedings are in your favor as well as confirm the spouse’s infidelity. Call us today for your consultation.
